Crista Anne, who is blogging about her Orgasm Quest at cristaanne.com When I read that my friend Crista Anne, foundress of the sex-toy-safety testing site Dildology, was on an “OrgasmQuest,” chronicling her once easily procured but now fleeting orgasm due…

The fastest way to turn me on is to spank me. I don’t know why I have such a Pavlovian response to a hand crashing down hard on my butt, but it’s one of my favorite sexual activities ever. It’s…

Arleen Spenceley If you’ve read my previous columns, it’s pretty clear that I’m not a virgin. But that doesn’t mean I can’t learn from someone who is. Arleen Spenceley is a 29-year-old self-described happy virgin and author of Chastity is…

The columnist’s lubricant of choice I haven’t always been the devotee of personal lubricant that I am today. For many years, it was a must-have only during anal sex. But when I hit my late 30s, I wasn’t as wet…

Feminist pornographer Petra Joy has been making X-rated films for a decade, but new online porn regulations in the United Kingdom, which went into effect on Dec. 1, are already hurting her business. She’s shelved the launch of her streaming…

Carnalcopia podcast hosts Katie Mack (left) and Ashley Manta For some people ? I’m raising my hand! ? talking dirty comes easily, the way getting on stage does for performers. It’s part of our sexual makeup. For me, hearing the…

Since it’s Thanksgiving, I’m thinking about all the lessons about sex that I’ve learned over the last 22 years and for which I’m thankful. What I have to say might surprise you. Firstly, I’m grateful to live in a country…

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Maria Pouchnikova 1. | Bubble Love: If she’s a bathing beauty, you’ll want to truly pamper her with this special underwater plaything. Bubble Love is a lightweight, easy-to-use submersible jet that sends bubbles exactly where she wants them. You can…